This is one statement that is constantly on my mind: I could do more; I could do better. No matter what I do, the moment when I am done I think that it can actually be improved in a different way. This desire to constantly improve will probably stop me from ever having a normal, routine job. I’d come up with automation, optimization, and whatnot to make things better until they work by themselves and then I’d ask for another challenge to take.
The trick is: how can you get satisfied with less? There are two options you have here – from a skeptical point of view:
- Less in the material way. This one is easy to control (for me). I just don’t go shopping for “whatever”, because if I do, I definitely find things I need / always needed. I do targeted shopping: let’s say I want a dress, I know the model, the color, and the general price range and I am really targeted. I don’t get distracted by other little things I so, so want. It this doesn’t work, you should try to ask yourself a few things:
- Do I need this?
- Do I need this NOW?
- Will this actually bring me more benefits?
- Will this something I use or need in a few months?
- Is this something I always thought about getting and never had the budget for?
- Will this bring other little benefits on the side? (e.g. the laptop 🙂 )
- If I use this, will I decrease my expenses in other direction? (e.g. wifi versus cell-phone)
- Less in the intellectual way. I don’t even know what this means! Does this mean that I should stop learning? That is like saying “give up life” as that’s the main purpose of (my) life. If it means simplify, focus and prioritize we have a discussion. Not an easy one, but we can discuss about it and let’s see what I could do better:
- Simplification: I don’t have to write a full academic report for all research I do (right, keep saying that to yourself); sometimes a few good, primary sources are enough data to get me to your conclusion (especially if I already got to it by logical reasoning). So … simple!
- Focus: I have 1-2-3-4-5…-gazillion things to do. But doing this one thing I am actually working on at this right moment well should be my only focus for now. As soon as I’m done, I can throw my mind out there and win other territories but I won’t forget the now. The now is all that matters … now.
- Prioritization: ah this one is a bummer. I want to become a neuroscientist one day. And of course, writing was always one of my passions. Oh and I would totally love to paint. And design websites, that’s pretty much like painting. Let’s not forget about studying more business and I love sports. I have to do sports, learn about them, love them and find everything there is about them. I have a bad shoulder, let’s become a specialist in the acromioclavicular joint and find a fix. And I could go on forever. To get rid of all these things, I developed a time management schedule, otherwise I’d still be reading about the AC joint above at this right moment. But in the end, the main objective should be clear and specific, and prioritized targets should be taken out of it.
“What character attribute do you like least about yourself?
Sloth. Sometimes I feel like I ought to be doing something productive but I just can’t find the motivation. I always think I should be doing more, I just don’t always have it in me. I wish I did.”
If you want to have a clue about what he’s doing, check out the photos below. And yes, this whole post was mostly to introduce him to you 🙂
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Image source: Adventure Journal
Image source: Alex Honnold NorthFace official page
Image source: Never Stop Exploring